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Situation

When someone is struggling to manage at home

Practical first steps in Ireland when washing, dressing, meals or mobility at home are becoming too much.

Last reviewed: 11 September 2026Verified

It usually builds slowly: meals skipped, post unopened, a bath avoided, a fall that nobody mentioned. By the time a family names it, the situation has often been drifting for months.

In Ireland the main publicly funded route to help at home is the HSE Home Support Service, and you apply for it directly through your local Home Support Office, which arranges a needs assessment. Alongside that, small practical changes at home and local community services often make the fastest difference.

First steps

  1. Write down the specific tasks that are difficult and at what time of day — this is what an assessment asks about
  2. Apply to your local HSE Home Support Office — the application form is on the HSE website or available from the office
  3. Ask the GP whether anything treatable is contributing, such as pain, medication, hearing or eyesight
  4. Look at the home itself: stairs, the bathroom, lighting, trip hazards and heating

Who can help, and what each of them does

Ask for people by role. It is the quickest way past a general phone number.

The local HSE Home Support Office
The office for their area is the direct official route for questions about Home Support and for sending a completed application form. Completed forms are posted to that office.
Their GP
The person to speak to about any health change or new symptom, and about whether other health or community services may be appropriate.
The professionals who may carry out the assessment
After an application, the HSE arranges an assessment of need. It is carried out by a healthcare professional — most often the public health nurse, and sometimes a physiotherapist or occupational therapist. Ask the Home Support Office who will be doing it.
Local community and voluntary organisations
Meals, social contact, transport and day services vary a lot by area, and are arranged separately from the HSE application.

What to have ready

None of this is a formal requirement we can promise on anyone's behalf — it is simply what tends to be asked for, and having it written down saves repeating yourself.

  • A two-week note of the tasks that are difficult, and the time of day they happen — mornings, bedtime, weekends
  • Their basic details to hand — name, address and Eircode, date of birth and a phone number
  • Their GP's name and practice
  • Who else lives in the house, and what family or neighbours already do in a normal week
  • A current list of medication, for the GP rather than for us
  • Check the current application form on the official HSE page for exactly what it asks for, as the form can change

Questions worth asking

Ask the local HSE Home Support Office

  • Can you send me the Home Support application form, or should I download it?
  • Who carries out the needs assessment, and roughly what happens at it?
  • Will you write to us with the outcome, and who do I contact if our situation changes before then?
  • If support is approved, is it likely to be delivered by HSE staff or by an approved provider?
  • Can I ask about Consumer Directed Home Support for our situation?

Ask their GP

  • Could anything treatable be making this worse — pain, medication, hearing, eyesight, low mood?
  • Would a medication review help?
  • Is a referral to community physiotherapy or occupational therapy appropriate?

Ask your family, honestly

  • What can each of us actually commit to every week, not in a good week?
  • What happens on the days nobody is available?
  • Who is the one point of contact for calls and letters?

What can happen next

Possible paths, not predictions. Decisions about assessment, hours and timing are made by the HSE locally, and we never claim to know the outcome in advance.

  • A needs assessment is arrangedA completed application leads to an assessment of need. It looks at what the person can and cannot do day to day, not at their income — the older person's Home Support Service is free and does not check income or require a medical card.
  • You are written to with an outcomeThe HSE writes with the decision. If support is agreed, the amount and pattern of help depends on the assessment and on what is available locally, so we cannot tell you in advance how many hours anyone will get.
  • There may be a waitWaiting times vary by area and change over time. We only publish waiting-list figures we have verified against an official source, and aggregate figures can never predict one person's start date.
  • Other things can move fasterCommunity services, meals, day services, small home adaptations and carer supports run on separate processes, so they are often worth starting in parallel rather than after.

What to do while you wait

  • Keep the note going — if things get worse, tell the Home Support Office, in writing, and ask for the assessment to reflect it
  • Look at the bathroom, stairs, lighting and trip hazards; some changes cost very little
  • Ask locally about meals, day services and community transport
  • If you are doing the caring yourself, check the carer supports before you are exhausted
  • If you can pay privately, treat that as a top-up while the public application continues, not a replacement for it

Support that often applies here

Relevant does not mean approved. Each of these has its own assessment or decision process, run by the HSE, a local authority or the Department of Social Protection.

Guides that help you prepare

Where the facts on this page come from

How the system works is taken from the official pages below. Everything else here is practical experience of dealing with that system, not official guidance — and none of it is clinical or legal advice.